Starting a new job can be
stressful. On the one hand, you have to learn the ropes and adapt to an
unfamiliar work culture; on the other, you strive to make a good impression
with your colleagues and bosses. It can be tough trying to balance being an
eager learner and being likeable as a co-worker.
Every action or
move you make has a consequence, especially when you are new. In the quest to
fit in, try to steer clear from the following ten things you should not do
in your first month at work.
1. Being Late For Work
When you’re
trying to make a good impression with the bosses and co-workers, it all starts
from the first hours of the working day. Being late never sits well with people
in the office. That’s why you should always factor in the extra time you
might need in case of a traffic jam, an item accidentally left at home, parking
woes, or at least until you are familiar with the route (an its alternatives)
to the office. This way, you can turn up early for work when your travels are
smooth and when you get into unforeseen circumstances, you can still make it to
work on time.
2. Being Arrogant Or Cocky
Even if you hold a high position
in your new job or wish to exert certain
influence on your subordinates or peers, the first few months on your job isn’t the
right time to appear bossy. Take the time to learn and understand the work
processes and culture of the new working environment, while giving your
co-workers and subordinates to warm up to you. Besides, you will need this
crucial and limited amount of time to figure out the norms of this office
before implementing an appropriate management or work style
you find suitable in the organization.
3. Posting About Work On Social Networking
Sites
In this modern age, information
spreads very easily, and yours could spread fairly quickly, and usually without
you knowing about it. When you’re at one of the more critical stages of your
job, such information could make or break your career. There will
always be differences in the working cultures and acceptable norms between the
new working environment and the previous working environment. Refrain from
posting any comments, positive or negative, on any of your social networking sites
for fear of having the wrong person catch whiff of it.
4. Holding Your Silence And Feigning Ignorant
As the new person at your new
workplace, you get more leeway when it comes to making silly mistakes or asking
‘stupid questions’. You are expected to
rummage around in the dark for a bit before you can find your way out of the
chaos. So, go ahead and ask your colleagues even the most basic of questions,
e.g. how to use the Photostat machine. Making assumptions about how things work
is always a risk, even if you already know how certain things work. There may
be other procedures you need to complete first before moving on to the task
ahead. Clear your doubts as you get to them to prevent them accumulating.
People are not as helpful when they expect you to already know your way around
the office.
5. Getting Involved In Gossip
Gossip is
frowned upon in the workplace for good reasons: they carry incomplete, or
sometimes completely wrong, information, also known as rumors. Gossip-peddlers
sometimes spread these bits of info with personal agendas, which almost always
implicate company morale, relationships across the office and vertically up
the corporate ladder.
One common characteristic of gossip and rumours are that they are hard to
control. We’ll never know how or when the simplest of a bit of rumor could
escalate into something totally uncontrollable. Refrain from joining the rumour-monger
crew before you become a victim yourself.
6. Being Judgmental Or Close-Minded
Every
organization has its own issues and bottom-necks that may appear to be trivial
or preposterous to you when you first learn of it. The solution may seem rather
straightforward, and you may wonder out loud why no one is doing anything about
it. Well, one common reason is that people are generally averse to change, so
they would rather stick with their old, conservative methods out of sheer
comfort.
Pointing out
their erroneous thinking or stupidity is the best way to get you noticed — and
detested.
Also, the
problems in your new company may be
more than meets the eyes. You have yet to see the big picture of things in the
organization and hence fail to take into account the office politics, culture
and other work processes before you jump into that conclusion that the system
is flawed, but with reason. Therefore, being a newbie withhold your judgments
and understand everything better before you jump the gun and crusade for
change.
7. Taking Sides
In any kind of
environment, you’ll discover that there will be cliques or groups that move
together, think together, and ‘play together’. Such is the core of office
politics that exists in pretty much every workplace you could ever find
yourself in. ‘Representatives’ from one of those parties may try to befriend
you and offer to orientate you in the office. On the outside they may be nice
and friendly but soon enough you will find that they come with ulterior
motives. They are recruiting.
Take sides with
certain co-workers is fine, if you find that their values, ethics, working
styles etc align with yours. It will be a risk nonetheless; taking sides means
drawing up an invisible boundary, which makes asking favors from the other
groups or cliques more difficult. This would seriously reduce the opportunities
for you to learn as much as you can from as many people as you can find. The
best way forward is to gather as much as you can from all of those groups but
stay neutral and objective
8. Working The Floor Like A Casanova
When you are
new to the job, people have the tendency to judge you based on the kind of
behaviors you show at the initial stage. Making the move on your co-workers
during your probationary month may not be helpful with your ‘report card’,
especially if someone already has an eye on your target first. You can be
charming, or smooth, but be respectful to the ladies, don’t be too stuck up
with the men, and try not to be so aggressive with start-up relationships.
Focus on making a good impression with the people who decides if you can keep
your job first. There will be time for office romances if you think you are up
to it later on.
9. Spoiling The ‘Market’
I know most of
you would be trying to impress your new bosses and colleagues, showcasing your
skills, and exhibiting your passion and commitment to the organization’s
vision. However, sometimes it’s best to just go with the norm. If you go the
extra mile for every task that you do, you set the precedence that will be
expected of for the other employees; this ‘upsets the market’, so to speak.
It’s best to not overdo things. Withhold your enthusiasm enough to not be seen as
a threat but show enough to be a keeper.
10. Reveal Too Much About Yourself
Don’t judge a
book by its cover. As the new person in the workplace, you have no idea who you
can trust until you spend more time mingling around. This means that it is not
advisable for you to reveal too much about yourself no matter how likable or
sociable your colleagues may be. You never know if he or she may use that
information against you. Information is fodder for gossip. Nevertheless, be
friendly and polite to everyone.
Keep an open
mind and avoid being judgmental when it comes to people you’ve just met. Some
people take a longer time to warm up to you, so don’t take it personally when
they appear distant at first. Have casual conversations with them. In time,
you’ll see who’s trustworthy enough for you to share more about yourself, your
strategies and your future plans.